Jim Livingstone

28 February 2024


Hello, and Welcome

I grew up feeling like the odd one out. After forty-five years of trying to fit in, I was finally diagnosed with ADHD.

Since my diagnosis, I have spent the last twenty-five years researching and actively testing a massive amount of ADHD information.

Here are a few things I’ve learned along the way…


Doubt is a phenomenon that pervades the human experience, often impeding personal growth, creativity, and decision-making. It can present itself as a whisper of uncertainty in the back of the mind or as an overwhelming cloud that darkens one’s resolve.

While doubt can serve as a cautious advisor, preventing hasty decisions and encouraging thorough thought, it can also become a barrier to confidence and action.


At its core, doubt can sway the pendulum of the human psyche from balance to turmoil. It can generate a host of psychological tremors, ranging from mild hesitation to severe anxiety, shaping how individuals perceive themselves and their abilities. The effects can ripple out, touching every facet of life 

Decision-Making Paralysis

Doubt can lead to an inability to make decisions, large or small, due to fear of making the wrong choice. This paralysis can cause missed opportunities and stagnation in both personal and professional realms.

Eroded Confidence

When doubt becomes a resident in one’s mind, it can chip away at self-confidence. This erosion can lead individuals to question their knowledge, skills, and worth, often unjustly.

Stifled Creativity

Creative pursuits require a certain level of risk-taking and belief in one’s ideas. Doubt can dampen this creative spirit, leading to a reduction in innovation and expression.

Relationship Strain

Doubt can affect trust within personal relationships, giving rise to misunderstandings and conflicts. It can lead to second-guessing partners or friends, thereby weakening the bond of trust that bolsters relationships.

Missed Personal Growth

Personal growth often requires stepping out of comfort zones, which doubt can make exceedingly difficult. It can prevent individuals from exploring new experiences that are essential for development. 


The journey to overcoming doubt involves both mindset adjustments and practical steps. Here are some strategies to navigate through its maze:

Acknowledge and Reflect

Start by recognizing the presence of doubt and understanding its roots. Reflect on past successes and the irrationality of certain fears. This awareness creates a strong foundation for overcoming its grip.

Educate and Prepare

Often, doubt stems from a lack of knowledge. By educating yourself about the task or decision at hand and preparing adequately, you can replace uncertainty with competence and informed confidence.

Set Realistic Goals

Break down large, overwhelming tasks into smaller, manageable goals. Achieving these incrementally can build a track record of success, slowly dissolving doubt and reinforcing self-belief.

Embrace a Growth Mindset

Adopt the perspective that challenges are opportunities for growth rather than insurmountable roadblocks. This shift can reframe doubt from a stop signal to a caution sign that simply advises careful progress.

Cultivate a Support Network

Surround yourself with positive influencers who provide encouragement and constructive feedback. A support network can offer a different perspective, helping to dispel doubts that may arise from internal biases.

Practice Mindfulness and Positive Affirmations

Mindfulness exercises can help keep doubt from spiralling into anxiety. Pair this with positive affirmations that reinforce self-worth and the capability to build a resilient mindset.

 Learn from Failure

Instead of viewing failure as a confirmation of doubt, see it as a learning opportunity. Each misstep provides valuable information that can refine decision-making and strategies going forward.

 Take Decisive Action

Sometimes, the best way to overcome doubt is by taking action. Decision-making can be a catch-22 situation where inaction feeds doubt, and doubt feeds inaction. By making a decision, even a small one, you begin to break this cycle.


Doubt, if left unchecked, can be a formidable adversary, but it need not be a permanent fixture in your life. By employing thoughtful strategies to acknowledge, confront, and manage doubt, you can reclaim your inner certainty and navigate life with confidence.

Harnessing these tools, you can turn doubt from a formidable maze into a navigable pathway, leading towards enriched personal and professional fulfilment.

Ultimately, the ability to overcome doubt is not about the absence of doubt but about the courage to move forward despite it, making decisions that are reflective, informed, and bold.


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If you tested positive for ADHD, the vaccine is ACTION.

Jim Livingstone

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This Week’s Challenge.

Organisational Challenge

Task: Declutter and organise one small area each day (a drawer, a shelf, a corner of a room).

Goal: To create a more harmonious living space and decrease the visual noise that may contribute to feeling overwhelmed.

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This is the book I am currently writing, and I would like you to share the journey. I would love to hear your story and, with your consent, include it in the book, newsletter, or articles.

Peek Inside My Book…here is an unedited extract from Chapter 2


o   The Emotional Rollercoaster

o   Build a Supportive Network.

o   Your new beginning.


 Receiving a late diagnosis can be a transformative experience. While it may initially raise questions and emotions, embracing this diagnosis as a new beginning holds immense potential for personal growth and self-discovery.

It is an opportunity to understand yourself better, explore new strategies, and embrace a journey of evolution and self-acceptance.

A new beginning can also involve re-evaluating personal and professional goals. By understanding ADHD’s impact on your strengths and weaknesses, you can modify your ambitions accordingly.

You can identify careers or fields that align with your interests and allow for flexibility and stimulation, creating an environment where your unique attributes shine.

Seek Knowledge and Understand ADHD:

 One of the crucial steps in embracing a new beginning is educating yourself about ADHD. Learning about the condition, its symptoms, and its impact on daily life equips you with the knowledge to navigate your challenges effectively.

 It can also dispel misconceptions and reduce self-judgment while fostering self-compassion.

 Educating yourself about ADHD becomes an essential first step in embracing the diagnosis. Learn about its symptoms, causes, and the impact it may have on various aspects of life.

Understanding the neurobiological basis of ADHD can help alleviate self-blame or shame, replacing it with compassion and self-acceptance.

Reflect on Personal History:

Take the time to reflect on your life experiences before the diagnosis. Recognize the challenges, setbacks, and patterns that may have been influenced by undiagnosed ADHD. This reflection can provide insight into how ADHD has shaped your journey and allow for a fresh perspective moving forward.

Cultivate Self-Compassion:

Be kind to yourself and let go of any self-judgment or negative beliefs that may have arisen from past experiences.

Recognize that ADHD does not define your worth or capabilities. Treat yourself with kindness, understanding that everyone has strengths and struggles, and that managing ADHD is a unique journey.

 Re-evaluate Goals and Aspirations:

A later-in-life ADHD diagnosis opens doors for reevaluating personal goals and aspirations. Reflect on your passions, interests, and values, and align them with your newfound understanding of ADHD.

Reframe success by incorporating flexibility, adaptability, and self-care into your goals, allowing room for personal growth and fulfilment.

Develop Strategies and Support Systems:

Explore strategies and tools that help manage ADHD symptoms effectively. This could include organizational techniques, time management strategies, and prioritization methods.

Seek support from professionals, such as therapists or ADHD coaches, who can guide you in implementing these strategies and provide further guidance on managing your diagnosis.

Practice Self-Care:

Prioritize self-care as a fundamental aspect of embracing a new beginning with ADHD. Maintain a healthy lifestyle, ensuring regular exercise, sufficient sleep, and proper nutrition.

Incorporate stress-reducing activities, such as mindfulness, meditation, or activities that bring you joy and provide a sense of calm. Taking care of your physical and mental well-being contributes to better symptom management and overall resilience.

Embrace Neurodiversity:

Recognize and embrace the concept of neurodiversity, which celebrates the unique strengths and perspectives of individuals with ADHD.

Explore the positive aspects that come with ADHD, such as creativity, hyperfocus, and out-of-the-box thinking. Embracing neurodiversity can foster self-acceptance and empower you to leverage your strengths in various areas of life.

 A Growth Mindset:

Cultivate a growth mindset by emphasizing that the ADHD diagnosis does not define your worth or limit your potential.

Accept that setbacks or challenges are part of the journey. See them as opportunities for growth and learning. Remind yourself that you have the strength and resilience to overcome obstacles and achieve your goals.

Have an open mind, ready to learn, grow, and navigate this new adventure.

Remember that you are not alone and that there is a vibrant ADHD community ready to offer support, understanding, and encouragement.

With self-acceptance, education, and the right strategies, you can navigate this new phase of your life with confidence and thrive in a world that’s better understood through the lens of ADHD.

However, it is essential to view ADHD not as a limitation, but as a unique neurodivergent trait that can bring strengths and opportunities along with its challenges.


Embracing a later-in-life ADHD diagnosis as a new beginning requires self-reflection, self-compassion, and a commitment to personal growth.

By seeking knowledge about ADHD, developing effective strategies, building a support network, and practising self-care, you can navigate your journey with confidence and resilience.

Embrace your unique neurobiology, redefine success, and celebrate the strengths that come with ADHD as you embark on this new chapter of your life.

 You have the capacity to adapt and thrive despite the challenges your diagnosis may present.

to be continued next week………

Let me know what you think, the good, the bad and wtf?…link to comments on website

PS Love to hear your story if you want to share.

“You are never too ADHD to start over. Every day is a chance to make changes to create the life YOU want.”   

Jim Livingstone

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Or if you have already and want to buy a copy


Expect the Best,


If you’ve got a second, I would love to hear your thoughts and comments. jim@jimlivingstone.com.au I reply to every email.

This site is not intended to provide and does not constitute medical, legal, or other professional advice. The content in this newsletter is designed to support, not replace, medical or psychiatric treatment. Please seek professional help if you believe you may have Mental Health Issues.

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